Brenda.... we've known each other for AGES, albeit across state lines. Even though we never met face to face, we know each other's face. And 'lived' lots of it on the internet. Words cannot express the sorrow I feel for you and Matt with the loss of Bob... and Lance. (I know this is not a page for Lance, but you lost both so closely together, I feel the need to mention him, too.) You are a survivor, a daughter, a wife, a mother, a lifeline to our military personnel, and a dear friend who is loved by me and many others. God has a very cushioned rocking chair waiting for good people when your time comes. right now, Matt needs you ... and Bob is looking over your shoulder every step of the way. BTW, I am very proud of your beautiful website and tribute to your wonderful husband.... I'm sure Bob is, too.