Losing Bob is a tragedy in that he leaves a huge hole and will always be missed by Brenda, Matt, Bob's brothers and Sister, Parents, etc. However, if the real tragedy of life is that one can leave life without leaving a footprint, then Bob lived well...the best anyone could, and in that sense, no tragedy-only a sense of peace in a life well lived. I will always love my little brother, and will always miss him. But, moreso, I will always be so proud of who he is and celebrate that he lived a life with meaning. Love you always Bob.... Jim